{"id":12713,"date":"2021-11-30T12:34:40","date_gmt":"2021-11-30T12:34:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/path-perinatal.eu\/uk\/?post_type=waf&#038;p=12713"},"modified":"2022-01-14T09:26:48","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T09:26:48","slug":"domestic-violence-and-abuse","status":"publish","type":"waf","link":"http:\/\/path-perinatal.eu\/uk\/waf\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/","title":{"rendered":"Domestic violence and abuse"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<section id=\"gma78c9c1\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-m3 section-gma78c9c1 gutentor-module gutentor-container-cover has-image-bg has-custom-bg has-gutentor-overlay\"><div class=\"grid-container\">\n<section id=\"gm13721d4\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-m3 section-gm13721d4 gutentor-module gutentor-container-cover has-image-bg has-custom-bg has-gutentor-overlay\"><div class=\"grid-container gutentor-rm-ct-space-d gutentor-rm-ct-space-t gutentor-rm-ct-space\">\n<div id=\"section-g31c8e3\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-g31c8e3 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text text-align-justify-desktop text-align-justify-tablet text-align-justify-mobile centre\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><h3 class=\"gutentor-text\">What you need to know and where to get help<\/h3><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-white-background-color has-white-color\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-g8ed87d\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-g8ed87d gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\">Abusive relationships can take many forms. Sometimes it is not immediately obvious that abuse is occurring. It can start quite subtly and gradually intensify and affect both men and women. <br><br>It can start during pregnancy and not only affects the mother but the baby as well. It can increase the risk of miscarriage, premature birth, low birth weight, infection, injury to the baby and, in severe cases, death.<br><br>There are many different types of abuse. It does not always involve violence. It may take the form of coercion, for example your partner may be quite controlling of finances, what you do and who you see. <br><br>Domestic abuse can happen in same sex relationships and to both men and women, although it is more common for women to be on the receiving end of it. At least 1 in 4 women experience domestic abuse, however we know it is under reported by men.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/section>\n<\/div><\/section>\n\n\n\n<section id=\"gm00f9fe8\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-m3 section-gm00f9fe8 gutentor-module gutentor-container-cover has-color-bg has-custom-bg\"><div class=\"grid-container\">\n<div id=\"section-g037310\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-g037310 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\">If you are worried about someone checking up on what you have read online you can to look at this guide by Women\u2019s Aid on <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/cover-your-tracks-online\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/cover-your-tracks-online\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">how to cover your tracks online<\/span><\/a>.<br><br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">Women\u2019s Aid<\/span><\/a> are one of the leading national organisations who support women and men living with domestic abuse, the list below covers the different forms of domestic abuse, however abuse may not be limited to all that the list below covers.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-g9feb58\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e7 section-g9feb58 gutentor-element gutentor-element-list\"><ul class=\"grid-row gutentor-grid-item-wrap list-indicator-icon\"><li class=\"gutentor-list-item grid-lg-12 grid-md-12 grid-12\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-item gutentor-single-item-0\"><a class=\"gutentor-single-item-title-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/information-support\/what-is-domestic-abuse\/coercive-control\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span class=\"gutentor-list-item-wrap g-s-list-wrap\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-list-item-icon\"><i class=\"list-item-icon fas fa-arrow-right\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"gutentor-list-item\"><p class=\"gutentor-single-item-title\">Coercive control (a pattern of intimidation, degradation, isolation and control with the use or threat of physical or sexual violence)<\/p><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/li><li class=\"gutentor-list-item grid-lg-12 grid-md-12 grid-12\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-item gutentor-single-item-1\"><span class=\"gutentor-list-item-wrap g-s-list-wrap\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-list-item-icon\"><i class=\"list-item-icon fas fa-arrow-right\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"gutentor-list-item\"><p class=\"gutentor-single-item-title\">Psychological and\/or emotional abuse<\/p><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li><li class=\"gutentor-list-item grid-lg-12 grid-md-12 grid-12\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-item gutentor-single-item-2\"><span class=\"gutentor-list-item-wrap g-s-list-wrap\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-list-item-icon\"><i class=\"list-item-icon fas fa-arrow-right\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"gutentor-list-item\"><p class=\"gutentor-single-item-title\">Physical or sexual abuse<\/p><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li><li class=\"gutentor-list-item grid-lg-12 grid-md-12 grid-12\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-item gutentor-single-item-3\"><a class=\"gutentor-single-item-title-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/information-support\/what-is-domestic-abuse\/financial-abuse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span class=\"gutentor-list-item-wrap g-s-list-wrap\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-list-item-icon\"><i class=\"list-item-icon fas fa-arrow-right\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"gutentor-list-item\"><p class=\"gutentor-single-item-title\">Financial or economic abuse<\/p><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/li><li class=\"gutentor-list-item grid-lg-12 grid-md-12 grid-12\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-item gutentor-single-item-4\"><a class=\"gutentor-single-item-title-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/information-support\/what-is-domestic-abuse\/stalking\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span class=\"gutentor-list-item-wrap g-s-list-wrap\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-list-item-icon\"><i class=\"list-item-icon fas fa-arrow-right\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"gutentor-list-item\"><p class=\"gutentor-single-item-title\">Harassment and stalking<\/p><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/li><li class=\"gutentor-list-item grid-lg-12 grid-md-12 grid-12\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-item gutentor-single-item-5\"><a class=\"gutentor-single-item-title-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/information-support\/what-is-domestic-abuse\/onlinesafety\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span class=\"gutentor-list-item-wrap g-s-list-wrap\"><span class=\"gutentor-single-list-item-icon\"><i class=\"list-item-icon fas fa-arrow-right\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"gutentor-list-item\"><p class=\"gutentor-single-item-title\">Online or digital abuse<\/p><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-gcbff9d\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-gcbff9d gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\">If you are unhappy in your relationship <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/the-survivors-handbook\/am-i-in-an-abusive-relationship\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/the-survivors-handbook\/am-i-in-an-abusive-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">take this quiz by Women\u2019s Aid<\/span><\/a>. <br><br>The <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/the-survivors-handbook\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/the-survivors-handbook\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">Women\u2019s Aid Survivors Handbook<\/span><\/a> is an essential guide to every aspect of seeking support. <\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/section>\n\n\n\n<section id=\"gmc82cb2d\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-m3 section-gmc82cb2d gutentor-module gutentor-container-cover has-color-bg has-custom-bg\"><div class=\"grid-container\">\n<div id=\"section-g0c97f9\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-g0c97f9 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text centre\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><strong>Remember your GP, midwife and health visitor are there to help and support you, and keep you and your children or unborn baby safe. <\/strong><br><br><strong>Never be afraid to ask for or seek help.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/section>\n\n\n\n<section id=\"gm26f95d7\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-m3 section-gm26f95d7 gutentor-module gutentor-container-cover has-color-bg has-custom-bg\"><div class=\"grid-container\">\n<div id=\"section-gd66207\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-gd66207 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text centre\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\">Living with an abusive partner takes its toll on everyone including your unborn baby or children. As a parent you try to shield them from what is happening, but children, and even very young children are also affected even if they do not see the abuse, they hear it and pick up the atmosphere at home. <\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-g291e2e\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-g291e2e gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text centre\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\">It is important to talk with your children about what is happening as this can help them feel less angry, powerless, and confused. Ask them how they are feeling, listen and acknowledge how they feel and let them know this is not their fault. Women\u2019s Aid have a <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/the-survivors-handbook\/how-can-i-help-my-children\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/the-survivors-handbook\/how-can-i-help-my-children\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">guide on how you can help your children<\/span><\/a>.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-g9b0b6f\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-g9b0b6f gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text centre\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\">There are lots of useful national organisations that provide helplines, help and support below is a list of the main ones. Your GP, midwife and health visitor will also be aware of the local ones.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/section>\n\n\n\n<section id=\"gmed0f01b\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-m3 section-gmed0f01b gutentor-module gutentor-container-cover has-color-bg has-custom-bg\"><div class=\"grid-container\">\n<div id=\"section-g9ce53e\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-g9ce53e gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><h3 class=\"gutentor-text\"><strong>Where to get help for men and women<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-white-background-color has-white-color is-style-default\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-gba09d0\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-gba09d0 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><strong>In an emergency, call 999 the Police will always help you.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-ge908b8\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-ge908b8 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><strong>Ask for ANI scheme <\/strong>was set up in Jan 2021 as a discreet way to allow those in an abusive relationship ask for help and support through their local chemist. By asking for ANI, a trained pharmacy worker will offer a private space where they can understand if the victim needs to speak to the police or would like help to access support services such as a national or local domestic abuse helplines<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-white-background-color has-white-color\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-gf6b61e\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-gf6b61e gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><strong>Making a silent call to ask for help<\/strong> -You call 999 and if you are unable to talk for fear of being overheard, press 55 and your call will be transferred to your local police department as an emergency.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-white-background-color has-white-color\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-g899655\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-g899655 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/information-support\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/information-support\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">Women\u2019s Aid<\/span><\/strong><\/a> <br>Women\u2019s Aid <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/domestic-abuse-directory\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.womensaid.org.uk\/domestic-abuse-directory\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">local services<\/span><\/a> can offer help to men too.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-white-background-color has-white-color\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-g478882\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-g478882 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/live-well\/healthy-body\/getting-help-for-domestic-violence\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/live-well\/healthy-body\/getting-help-for-domestic-violence\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">NHS Domestic violence and abuse<\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-white-background-color has-white-color\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-g14c175\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-g14c175 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/karmanirvana.org.uk\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/karmanirvana.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">Karma Nirvana<\/span><\/strong><\/a><br>Anyone can call Karma Nirvana on 0800 5999 247 (Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm) for forced marriage and honour crimes. You can also call 020 7008 0151 to speak to the GOV.UK <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gov.uk\/stop-forced-marriage\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.gov.uk\/stop-forced-marriage\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">Forced Marriage Unit<\/span><\/a><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-white-background-color has-white-color\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-g6d7350\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-g6d7350 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">Refuge<\/span><\/strong><\/a> <br>The freephone, 24-hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline 0808 2000 247 for men and women<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-white-background-color has-white-color\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-ge5a13c\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-ge5a13c gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><strong><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tommys.org\/pregnancy-information\/blogs-and-stories\/im-pregnant\/tommys-midwives\/domestic-abuse-and-pregnancy\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.tommys.org\/pregnancy-information\/blogs-and-stories\/im-pregnant\/tommys-midwives\/domestic-abuse-and-pregnancy\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">Tommy\u2019s Domestic abuse and pregnancy<\/span><\/a><\/strong><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/section>\n\n\n\n<section id=\"gm0d04d45\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-m3 section-gm0d04d45 gutentor-module gutentor-container-cover has-color-bg has-custom-bg\"><div class=\"grid-container\">\n<div id=\"section-gce8a33\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-gce8a33 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><h3 class=\"gutentor-text\"><strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">Specific Male and LGBTQ+ helplines and organisations<\/span><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-ge3dd48\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-ge3dd48 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text centre\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mensadviceline.org.uk\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/mensadviceline.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">Men&#8217;s Advice Line<\/span><\/strong><\/a><br>Call on <strong>0808 8010 327 <\/strong>(Monday and Wednesday, 9am to 8pm, and Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, 9am to 5pm) for non-judgemental information and support<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-gd014cd\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-gd014cd gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text centre\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mankind.org.uk\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.mankind.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\"><strong>Mankind<\/strong><\/span><\/a><br>Call on 0182 3334 244 (Monday to Friday, 10am to 4pm)<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\" \/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"section-gdf1376\" class=\"wp-block-gutentor-e1 section-gdf1376 gutentor-element gutentor-element-advanced-text centre\"><div class=\"gutentor-text-wrap\"><p class=\"gutentor-text\"><strong><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/galop.org.uk\/types-of-abuse\/domestic-abuse\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/galop.org.uk\/types-of-abuse\/domestic-abuse\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">Galop<\/span><\/a><\/strong><br>If you are LGBTQ+ you can call Galop on 0800 999 5428 for emotional and practical support<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"template":"","class_list":["post-12713","waf","type-waf","status-publish","hentry","waf-cat-resources-mental-health"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/path-perinatal.eu\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/waf\/12713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/path-perinatal.eu\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/waf"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/path-perinatal.eu\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/waf"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/path-perinatal.eu\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}